May 7, 2024 Oof what a week!BEFORE WE DIVE IN - THE COLORADO RETREAT CART IS NOW OPEN FOR PURCHASE! Monthly payment plans are as low as $333 and it's basically all expenses paid (minus flight!). DM me if you have questions!
β I feel like I have so much to say and so little I can say at the moment lol Everything I have on my heart either isn't mine to share, or isn't something I want to share, being that I'm the kind of person who likes to discuss the scar not the wound. This has kind of always been my gripe with the "transparency" push. The thing is, if you follow me closely then you know what we're planning next (most likely), you'll know who I'm working with, you'll know who I'm hiring, etc. so for me to share in real time the "transparent" realities of entrepreneurship would be something would directly like to something, someone, some instance. You'd know immediately which would mean that "transparency" would get me in trouble, at times. I say "transparency" because I think that we crave it online because we need that validation that we aren't the only ones. We're not the only ones struggling, or not the only ones with a failed launch, or not the only ones nervous to sell a digital product, etc. My take is simply a bit different - I think we all KNOW that we are more alike than we are similar. But in seeking this validation online that someone else is similar to you is almost outsourcing your support. I've found myself my most insecure when I was looking to see if anyone was like me. I've also found myself my most confident when I said "I am like me" and didn't seek a mirror to reflect that I'm allowed to be. It reminds me of a time my friend was annoyed with someone famous online who shares her kids. She said "I don't know how she does it - her kids/babies NEVER cry!!!" and I thought that was so interesting. Of course they cry! They're babies! But somewhere along the way, we took these apps that show us parts of peoples lives and created made up stories about people that what we see is everything and its all fact. The truth is, if you see someone running a business on Instagram - that baby cries lol I mean in the way that - they have failed marketing efforts. They feel like they're not doing enough. They're also sacrificing. They worry about money, or brand reputation, or how to juggle it all. There is no marriage, no business, no household, no trip, no relationship, no house decor, no career that comes without it's pitfalls. Take this past weekend. I babysit my nephew all weekend and we had such a great time that I truly think it will go down as one of my favorite life experiences of all time. He's just so great with me, and we have SO much silly fun together. But there was a time this weekend that he didn't get what he wanted (a silly request I was not going to accommodate) and he had a little fit about it. He yelled at me "DONT TALK TO ME. DONT LOOK AT ME". Thankfully it didn't last long and the kid was exhausted so of course I didn't take it personal. But why would I share that on social media? This comes back to - if we all know it's a highlight reel, can we use it as motivation instead of punishment? Strive for those highlights that you also want. But also know that with the pitfalls that will naturally come your way, YOU are your biggest supporter. You are the one who can say "I'm sure others experience this too. And even if they don't, it's valid that I am experiencing it now and frustrated by it. But I WILL get through this." And that's what I hope this transparency movement is about. Not forcing people to expose what they're not comfortable with so we feel validated. I hope it's about connecting and sharing if you please...but all of us knowing that at the end of the day, even the best business has hiccups. Just like the cutest kid on the planet is gonna yell at you because you didn't steal 3 ketchup bottles from the restaurant. Did you know I have a playlist of podcasts I love? Each of these are episodes that I feel are super strong for entrepreneurs to listen to? It's also collaborative so you can add any of your own favorites to it. Click here to listen to "wow" worthy episodes that entrepreneurs need to hear. Looking for ways to work together? I actually don't offer my services anymore and the reason for this is because I'm SO active in The Do-ers Club and with my experience, I'd have to charge an unbelievably high rate - which isn't fun for me. If you're looking to network with other people, book calls with me for as low as $175, and/or join Office Hours basically every week for my eyes on your business - join us in The Club! I can't pull you up the ladder if I'm also putting you in debt. PS I'm running a giveaway but don't tell the others.I haven't even marketed this yet but we relaunched our merch shop (so cute take a look!!!) and I want to give one of you $100! If you leave a comment on this post, I'll choose one of you on Friday to receive a $100 off coupon to shop the merch store! The Do-ers Club Upcoming CalendarMindset Blocks and Steps to Overcome: May 8; 1pm EST Build a Brand Culture: May 13; 6:30pm EST Pitch Race: Pt 1 - Gather Leads; May 14; 2-6pm EST Pitch Race: Pt 2 - Race to 50 - Live Pitching; May 15; 2-6pm EST Build a Month of Content Together: June TBD Long Form to Short Form; Repurpose Efficiently: June TBD PLUS weekly coworking and live video Office Hours. These dates/times are subject to change. Meet other entrepreneurs, learn more about yourself and your business, and restttttt relaxxxxx and enjoy. I can't WAIT to share this experience with you <3 Reviews from our last retreat: This week completely changed my life. I don't know what I expected but I definitely didn't expect to feel so energized! I will always feel close with these women now, and I know myself much differently and much deeper now. I feel more confident and I also feel in love with my business again. Thank you thank you thank you! Join us! September 9-13 in Breckenridge CO - only 7 seats left
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February 25, 2024 OMG It's heeeeeeere π₯°π¦π«ΆπΌππ I am still kind of in shock that I'm sending this tbh??? I have aggressively and loudly been the person who does not love a newsletter, I'll be honest. If done well, it's so baller don't get me wrong. BUT it's hardly done well. (Shoutout to email marketers like @gal.agency who can tell you the difference). And here's the thing, I know that you think I'm the girl with typos who's a bit of a mess and you're like - how tf does she have such a...